"My life? It isn't easy to explain. It has not been the rip-roaring spectacular I fancied it would be. But neither have I burrowed around with gophers. I suppose it has resembled a bluechip stock; farily stable, more ups than downs and gradually treading upwards over time. A good buy, a lucky buy and I've learned that not everyone can say this about his life. But do not be misled, I am nothing special; of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts, and I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But I've loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough."

-The Notebook By Nicholas Sparks

oh well.